Are You a Grinding Stone or a Polishing Stone?
Now more than EVER all eyes are on EDUCATION – Higher Standards, More Assessments, Increased Scrutiny
Leadership is imperative- Teacher Leaders like YOU have stepped in the gap, lifted people up and been the example for others
Colleagues look to you as the EXAMPLE. Your ATTITUDE and OUTLOOK impact the entire school.
I want to CHALLENGE EACH of you to do 3 things as TEACHER LEADERS:
A. Lead by Example
B. Keep Moving Forward
C. Don’t be a Grinding Stone, be a Polishing Stone
1. LEAD BY EXAMPLE
a. Stand in the gap-When things need done, don’t wait to be asked. The small things make a big difference. Your example implores others to do the same.
b. Hold yourself and others to a higher standard.
c. Have a Positive Attitude- They are very contagious.
d. Be a Team Player- Know your strengths and your weaknesses, and utilize those around you.
e. Take risks, be willing to fail, have fun, don’t get too full of yourself, Admit when you don’t know something.
f. Leading doesn't mean doing things for others (Students or colleagues) that they could or should do for themselves. Leading means empowering others and helping them see their own ability to be great. I heard a recent story at a Rotary Future Visions meeting that frames this point very well:
When you do for others what they could and should do for themselves you enable helplessness. Instead, help others grow their own capacity to improve. In such cases if you:
Feed a person once and it elicits appreciation. (Oh, thank you so much!)
Feed a person twice and it creates anticipation (Wonder if he’s going to do it again.)
Feed a person three times and it creates expectation. (When is he going to do it again.)
Feed a person four times and it becomes entitlement. (I want it now!)
Feed a person five times and it becomes dependency. (You can’t stop, I’m counting on it!)
Instead, support and assist others as they develop their own skills, attitudes and abilities. Be a leader who lifts others up, but doesn't prop them up.
g. “A leader is best when people barely know he exists, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves.” ~Lao Tzu
2. KEEP MOVING FORWARD
a. Embrace the journey you are on. Keep growing throughout and don’t fret the obstacles. We all depend on each other. Be prepared and embrace the path you’ve chosen.
b. You may be familiar with the story of Napolean Bonaparte in a battle in the Swiss Alps- vastly outnumbered and losing. He directed the Bugle Boy to sound Retreat. Unfortunately, the young man didn’t know it. Scared to not follow directions he instead blew “charge”. Troops thought reinforcements were coming so they pressed forward. The enemy heard charge and also thought the enemy had reinforcements so they retreated. So… keep moving forward, even when you think you are close to defeat.
3. Are you a GRINDING STONE or Polishing Stone
a. A grinding stone can grind you down or polish you up
b. To be a polishing stone, you need to
i. Enjoy your work
ii. Have a game plan to polish others and make them shine
iii. Go the extra mile. If Good enough were Good enough, we’d all be great.
iv. See the big picture. There’s always more to us than our immediate surroundings. Team players understand the big picture.
v. Grinding stones tear others down, Polishing stones help remove the junk that is covering the shine. Both can be abrasive, but to polish, you have to know how much pressure is needed and when. Polishing stones help reveal what is already there, but is otherwise hidden. They bring out the best in others.
Your REPUTATION is what you are known for
Your LEGACY is what you leave behind